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Finally found 1 great house, listing removed before offer date

I'm devastated and I feel like I got catfished. We spent the weekend touring the house, checking out everything about the neighborhood, spent a day looking at disclosures etc. I even dreamt about the house, looked at the pictures maybe 20x a day, ready to throw my fortune at it, and then 1 day before the offer date the listing got removed.

I know plans change but that sucks so bad. We've let the sellers know we still are interested, gave them an offer in case they changed their minds. Now I don't think I can be interested in another house again. I'm always waiting for this one to come back up, if it will even, and if it does there's no guarantee we get the house.

I offered a price above market rate, 15 days close, covering buyer agent fees. I'm throwing everything at them. I've fallen into the trap of falling in love with houses I haven't even won. It reminds me of how dating sucks, because you go out and fall in love and get rejected repeatedly, until you find one that accepts you. I'm not emotionally strong enough for this

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