I’m making this post as an overreaction to my life’s current situation. But my marriage isn’t in a very healthy state and if marriage counseling doesn’t help my wife and I get back on track we are seemingly headed for a divorce. About 3 years ago we / mainly me bought the house we’re currently living in. It’s a great town in a great school district great everything. If my wife were to move out I truly don’t think it really be messy divorce since we both just coming to the realization that maybe we shouldn’t have gotten married when we did (we don’t hate each other at all). I think again I’m not believing this I’m just thinking best case scenarios that I would have to buy her out of a small potion and give her a car( we own two ones payed off). I don’t want to sell this house as I got a decent deal on it for this area. My main question of rambling racing thoughts is, to anyone who’s been in a similar situation. If you kept the house did you rent the entire house out to help keep payi...
This weekend did not go well and we barely got anything done. Some rooms vaguely approach level of "good enough for some mover to eventually come in and throw the rest ina storage unit" but others have remained untouched. At this point my last question is - can I send a strongly worded email to the real estate people working allegedly on my mom's behalf about how extremely unhelpful they have been? They will send her emails with lawyer jargon about liens from 40 years ago and expect her to know what the fuck they're talking about. They made no effort to contact family members like me who could have been made aware of this much earlier. They didn't realize that asking a single older woman to empty her house alone is ridiculous and should have considered negotiating sellign the house "as is." Various other shortfalls on their part. I want to send this email because my mom has basically shut down. I just don't want there to be any consequences on her ...