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Forced into buying a home at 19, no idea what to do, need lots of advice.

As the title says, I'm 19 being forced into buying a $200,000 home.

TL:DR I need a lot of instruction on what steps to take as a first home buyer since I truly know NOTHING about how to do this.

I'm living in a rent to own house with my mom. We're under a 4 year lease and we have about 5 more months before we are expected to buy. I knew when we moved in I would be co-signing on the property in 3 years time. Everything took a really bad turn several months ago when my mom and landlord rewrote the lease double the price. I wasn't informed of this extreme change until 3 months after this occurred. My mom has since left her job and I have been practically the sole provider since. In the past 3 years I have put a lot of effort into fixing up this house and I simply cannot leave as it meets a lot of necessities. My mom wants to be as helpful as she can but I can tell she is extremely lost and is too distracted to really figure this out with me. I just need some help from hopefully more educated and reliable resources (while fact checking). Thank you

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