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Home buying guilt

I have been reasonably successful in life and I’m in a position to be able to assist my young adult children in buying their first homes. I already helped one and am in the process of helping the second. I was out at open housing looking at true starter homes. (I’m not helping them get anything outrageous. I wasn’t that successful.). But I was looking at the young couples at some of the open houses and they appeared as though these starter homes would be an absolute stretch for them to afford. Made me wonder if I am part of the problem by giving my kids a leg up over these other people that are struggling and don’t have access to a parent willing to help. I hate the concept of “privilege” because I feel I did things without assistance. But… it’s tough to not feel like my kids have an unfair advantage by birth. Should I feel any guilt? Or is that just how the world works?

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