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I hate my new build house and having an anxiety attack

I’m having anxiety, I doubt there’s much I can do at this point. I went to the new house site today and We are first time home buyers and close in 18 days, loan is locked in at 3.5% 15K down already in earnest money already. We live in Mn. We did a conventional loan, no special financing or anything. So without taking a financial loss, I think we are stuck and have to stay.

I hate it, it feels small for being a 4 bed, 1 full, 2 baths with just showers (2300 sq ft), and like we paid way too much (465K) it feels cheap and poorly built, I have disliked the builders through the process and maybe that’s why I am feeling this way. I’m scared we paid too much and that we are going to go completely underwater because the housing market and inflation. The yard will be unfinished through winter, so I feel like it’s just going to be an ugly mud pit.

Can someone talk me from the ledge here? Is it normal to have this kind of anxiety? Does it turn out to be okay once you move in? What if I still hate it, how long should you stay in a place before you resell it?

I feel so dumb and foolish. I wouldn’t be the least bit sad if a meteor fell from sky and landed directly on the house and wiped it off the planet.

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