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The landlord is 86 with dementia. How do i bring up our desire to buy the home we are currently living in?

This lady is a very distant relative of my wife. We live in the basement and do little household chores, buy groceries, and cook exchange for greatly reduced rent. She’s got horrible memory issues and can’t cook for herself without risking the house burning down. She’s otherwise in pretty good health. Her 3 daughters have power of attorney and we have a good relationship with them because we take really good care of their mom.

So we want to buy this house eventually and plant that seed to let them know we are really interested for when their mom passes on or moves to another home. How can we bring that up in a positive/gentle way without sounding like “we want this house when the old lady kicks the bucket”?

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