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I think I fucked up

TLDR: no final walk through, seller didn't complete repair

I closed this morning but per contract, seller has possession until 9pm (PST). My realtor called me and said the seller is out and hid the key under a rock, house is empty, and I'm free to go over and start moving. BUT the seller's ex is still there. The house has a new fence and gates weren't up yet but in the contract, it said gates needed to be up before 11/30. And they were. But then the ex took them down with the intention of re-hanging them. He plans to do it tomorrow but isn't sure if he'll be able to finish. He's left all his tools and supplies inside the home (garage) and will thus need access until the job is finished. Here's my big issue (unrelated to real estate): I'm buying this home alone. I'm a single late 20s female with a long history of sexual abuse while I was in the military. The idea of a strange man having access to my home and hanging around the property is TERRIFYING to me. I understand that my emotions are not this man's fault and he's likely a fine person. But fuck. Half reason I'm buying this place is so my dog has a backyard, so obviously I want the gates up. But this just doesn't seem fair. The contract said it had to be finished. I don't want to be unreasonable, so please share what a reasonable response to this would be. Thanks.

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