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I have such intense anxiety over putting an offer on a house and feel like I'll never be able to

My husband and I have enough money to put 20% down now and have been looking since September. The market is very slow here right now (midwest). I'm very picky and the few times we have found a house we love, when we put in the offer I have the most intense anxiety over it. I do not feel excited in any way... I have anxiety about the home having things that cost too much down the line, about moving, not loving it as much as where we rent (same city). Today we saw a house that was nearly perfect, AND at a much more affordable price than most houses. I got so anxious when my realtor sent the documents I couldn't get myself to sign it. It is literally 2 blocks from my "dream area" and that made me think I need to wait until something pops up there. I also worry what if house prices go down in a few months and I bought a house for too much? I worry over everything...

I guess I'm just venting .. I feel like I'm being ridiculous but I legit feel so nervous over this.

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