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Home closing keeps getting pushed back. We were "shooting for" Friday but were told late today that it won't happen. Still no official date. [NY]

This has been dragging on since November/December so I'm fuzzy on the pieces. We were selling a house, I started a new job, we had to move into a shitty Airbnb, etc. so I'll try to recall what I can.

I have it in my email that we signed our Purchase Offer on 11/22/19. The bank sent us a list of items they needed from us on 12/27 which we completed by the 29th. The loan was started on the 2nd. We had to have the house reappraised for some paint touchups, which happened on Monday, but the report didn't make its way to the bank until today. We won't be clear to begin closing, I guess, until tomorrow so Friday basically isn't happening. It'll likely be a week later.

Initially, we'd been told early in the process that 1/15 would be possible which impacted when we set our own house to sell. I feel like our realtor back home was much more knowledgeable than the one we located in our new "home" because every call she made, from the amount we'd make to the timeline was 100% accurate; everything on this end has been a fuck up and I don't even know why.

Anyways, that got pushed back to around 1/31 which meant we had to leave our house sooner than our new house would close. Now it's pushed back to around 2/7. So far, we've burned through the moving credit we were provided by the company my husband was hired by and we now estimate the move will total $10k+, $5k+ out of pocket as the date keeps getting pushed back.

Everything I'd read prior indicated that 8 weeks post-offer acceptance was about the high end. We're approaching 11 weeks and we're just completely flabbergasted. We don't feel like we have any idea what keeps pushing each step back and we're wondering if anyone has any insight. We didn't even get told about this next pushback, we had to email...and email...and call...and call the lawyer all day until he finally responded to say we probably wouldn't make it in time to close Friday.

We're trying to be patient but we went from a nearly free move to yanking out credit cards and living in a basement with a drunk so we wish we could even just at least understand what is going on and how normal this is. Our own house sold really fast and the check was received on Saturday so we're just out here in no man's land wondering wtf is happening. It's not like our buyer had a better financial situation either, I don't think he put down a ton; he was a Vet with a disabled adult son and a grandson and only put down $1000 in earnest money. We really thought we had this licked...

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