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How do I thank a realtor, lender, etc. who have gone the extra mile on a deal I have to back out of? (Two < $50k mortgages. I can only get one house because the second/investment property ended up costing too much.)

Title summarizes it. My realtor and local lender have really pulled through for me. Two other local lenders flat-out refused to help me on the second property at all.

But the final numbers on both properties have come back, and I'm undecided on the second / investment property. I'm not comfortable being "undecided" on a house. It's an extra $10k hit in my bank account and it's coming with extra costs that keep creeping up, so I'm more likely than not to back out at this point.

How do I politely pull out of the second, and is there any way I can show my appreciation? Because this was all at my command.

I get that the realtor and lender work for me and I am their client, but I can't imagine the hassle everyone has been through trying to get both properties secured and financed for me up until this point. Personally, if I was either my realtor or lender, I might just fire me as a client 😂

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